Loving a human being is to provide the opportunity to be heard with deep attention, interest and respect, accept their experience without trying to change it but to understand, offer a space that can be discovered without fear of being qualified, in which open feel confident without being forced to reveal what they consider private is to recognize and show he has the inalienable right to choose their own path, although this does not coincide with yours, it can discover their inner truth itself in its own way, appreciate it without conditions, without judging or objectionable, without asking that fits your Ideally, without requiring you to act in accordance with your expectations, is valued for who they are, not as you want it to be, is to rely on their ability to learn from their mistakes and to rise its fall, stronger and more mature, and communicate your faith and trust in his power as a human being.
Loving a human being is daring to show helpless, without poses or masks, revealing your naked truth, honest, transparent face to face is to discover your own feelings, your vulnerabilities , let you know when you really are, without adopting prefabricated attitudes to make an impression, is to expose your desires and needs, without waiting to be responsible to satisfy, is to express your ideas without trying to convince him that they are correct, is to enjoy the privilege of being your same face to face, without asking any recognition, and in this way, go find yourself in new and different facets, is to be truthful, without fear or shame, crystal eyes tell you "this am, at this point in my life, and that I am willingly and freely share it with you ... if you want to receive. "
Loving a human being is to enjoy fortunate to commit voluntarily and actively respond to their need for personal development is to believe in him when he doubts himself, to contaminate your vitality and enthusiasm when is about to give up, support it when flagging, cheer him when he hesitates, taking it out of hand when it feels weak trust when something overwhelms him and pet him gently when something sad, without getting carried away by their desdicha.Es share in this for the simple pleasure of being together, without ties or obligations imposed by the spontaneous decision to reply freely. 
Loving a human being is being humble enough to receive his tenderness and affection without playing the role of which no one needs, is happy to accept that provides without requiring you to give you what you can not or will not, thank Life is the miracle of his existence and his presence felt a real blessing in your path, is to enjoy the experience knowing that every day is an adventure and the future uncertain, a perennial incognita, is to live each moment as if it were the last thing you can share with others, so that each encounter is so intense and so deep as if for the first time you take the hand, making everyday is always a distinct and miraculous creation.
Loving a human being is daring to express the love espontánemante through your eyes, your gestures and smiles, the firm and delicate touch of your strong embrace, your kisses, your words frank and simple, is to let you know and feel how much you value by being who he is, how much you appreciate their internal resources, even those who know it, is to see their latent potential and help to flower seed that is asleep inside, to make you feel that your personal development you honestly care who is counting on you, it can discover their creative talents and encourage their ability to give all the fruit that could, is to unveil before your eyes all the treasure within you and mutually cooperate to make this life a richer and more full of sentido.Amar a human being is also daring to set your own limits and keep them securely, is respecting yourself and not let the other transgresses what you consider your personal rights is to have so much confidence in yourself and in the other, without fear of damaging the relationship, feel free to express your anger without offending the loved one, and can express what's bothering you and uncomfortable without trying to hurt him or hurt him. You acknowledge and respect their limitations and to appreciate not idealize him, to share and enjoy the agreements and accept disagreements, and if there comes a day when paths diverge obviously hopeless, love is being able to say goodbye in peace and harmony, so that both are remembered with gratitude for the treasures shared.
Loving a human being is to go beyond their individuality as a person is perceived and valued as a sign of humanity, as an expression of Man, as a tangible manifestation of the transcendental and intangible essence called "human being" of which you are a part, is to recognize, through him, the indescribable miracle of human nature, which is your own nature, with all its grandeur and its limitations ; appreciate both the bright and shining faces of humandidad as dark and sombre sides; love a human being, in fact, is to love whole human being, it is true love human nature as it is, and therefore love a human being is loving yourself and feel proud to be a note in the symphony of this world.
Dr. Humberto Maturana
psychologist and philosopher.
Father Ontology Language
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